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A Conversation that Changed My Life

Not too long ago, I had one of the most astonishing conversations of my life with a man who defected from North Korea and is now in the business of smuggling other defectors out of the country. His story reshaped my understanding of freedom, a concept many people love in theory but seem to forget or take for granted in practice. I have even heard people ask the question: Is freedom a good thing?

I was on a personal trip to South Korea for a conference when I was invited to a meeting with the smuggler by Wendy Wright, the president of Christian Freedom International, an organization that helps Christians facing persecution. She planned to ask him to begin smuggling Bibles.

Wendy invited me because she knew that I care not only about persecuted Christians (many of them are trying to escape North Korea), but also about what it means to have a good government (because of my work with HSLDA’s Generation Joshua).

We met him for lunch. I don’t know much about Korean food, so I don’t really remember what I had to eat. But I do remember how the smuggler captured my full attention when he began to tell his story.

He was born in North Korea, where life was difficult. But growing up, he was told that North Koreans were lucky and that the rest of the world had it worse. The Supreme Leader knew what they needed and cared for them—the story went—and out of love he helped each of one of them to live a good and meaningful life.

Lies.

The man I will continue to call “the smuggler” (I cannot use his name because he is still active) didn’t know they were lies though, until he grew a little older and became an athlete. He was good at soccer and he was becoming famous. Maybe too famous, as it turned out, because a government bureaucrat contacted him out of the blue and told him his soccer career was over.

For the good of the nation, the bureaucrat said, he had to become a truck driver. And not only that, he had to become a truck driver in Russia.

Instead of the love and care he was taught to expect from his Supreme Leader, he realized he had been rented out to work in a foreign country (and of course the government got kickbacks for that). The Supreme Leader had let him down, and that realization crushed his young soul. He determined to escape, to see as much of the world as he could, and then to take his own life.

This is what it looks like when you don’t have freedom.

In a free country, the choice would have been his. The government wouldn’t have been able to suddenly order him to become a truck driver via some form of executive order.

Wendy and Jeremiah work with North Korean defectors on a humanitarian project.

In a free country, he would have been able to look for work where he wanted. And if he had taken a job in Russia, he could have expected the benefits to go to him, not to some Supreme Leader.

In a free country, we can seek what is best for us and our loved ones. In a free country, we can homeschool, even if other people find it strange or don’t understand why.

They may think we are being reckless or foolish, but—like the smuggler—we know what gives us hope and meaning, and what takes it away from our lives. We know our kids. We see what we can do in our specific family situation to help each of them navigate spiritual, emotional, and physical realities invisible to the skeptics looking on from a distance.

Freedom allows each of us to find joy and meaning in our work. My friend Timothy can be an artist, even if that job doesn’t make the same money as my friend Kirk, who is a lawyer. My friend Kristin can be a homeschooling mom, while my friend Jacenta writes books.

Each of these are different roles with different pay, but individuals are far more suited to find the role that fits their skills, interests, and needs than a one-size-fits-all system that says: “Oh, we need truck drivers. Tag! You’re it!”

Now, I haven’t forgotten the story. How did this young North Korean man make it to a mall in South Korea to have lunch with me, decades after this life-changing event? Well, freedom is not just defined by lack of restraints. Freedom is also a light that shines in dark places.

My friend and I had a reason to meet with him beyond hearing his story. We were there to ask him if he would be willing to smuggle some electronic Bibles into North Korea through his connections. To that end, I had two bags of 100 electronic Bibles with me.

I pulled them out and placed them on the table, and then I asked him if he would be willing to smuggle them across the border to people in North Korea. He looked me right in the eyes. “If I get caught with my smuggling business, I am tortured and imprisoned,” he said, and then pointed to the Bibles. “If I’m caught with those, I am killed.”

The interpreter’s words sunk in. It was quite a way to say, “No.”

The conversation moved on. We asked him how he escaped all those decades ago. He talked about his goal of seeing as much of the world as he could, and how he did.

He said he crossed the whole of Asia and made it to a former communist territory somewhere in either Ukraine or Romania, which at the time was subject to Russia’s Soviet Union. He was living there the day the Iron Curtain fell and communism collapsed.

He explained that some of the first people who came into that territory were Christian missionaries. They found him, and as he was starting to experience political freedom for the first time in his life, he also found spiritual freedom.

One hundred electronic Bibles on the table at lunch.

In the darkness of a life without hope, he was given a new kind of freedom that changed everything for him. He was told that his life had purpose, because he was designed by God. And he now saw that he had a reason to live!

As he got to this part of his story, the smuggler looked over at me thoughtfully, and paused. “Give me 100 of those Bibles,” he said.

I could not help but smile. He knew the value of both kinds of freedom, and he wanted to share it with others, even though it could cost him everything. I pushed the Bibles across the table and they disappeared into his backpack.

Then I asked him how he ended up in South Korea. He said that after the missionaries introduced him to spiritual freedom, he dreamed of living his life to the fullest.

So he took advantage of the political freedom available to him and traveled to South Korea, where he could live as a free citizen. There he started a smuggling business in order to bring some of the fruits of the freedom he had found to people who grew up as he had—in the bondage of North Korean communism.

He also found and married a lovely woman, and they now have two sons. As someone who works with teens through Generation Joshua, I asked him what his sons love to do, and his eyes immediately lit up. “My oldest plays soccer, and he is good at it!” he said.

I didn’t need to hear the words that followed, because I could see it in his eyes: His son was able to have things that he had never even dreamed of when he was young. This smuggler who escaped from North Korea had found freedom, and he knows it is a treasure.

The Bible verse, “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free,” is talking about spiritual freedom. But political freedom—raising your family well and walking through life the best you can in a free society—is an outgrowth of that same principle.

Freedom is a good thing, and we should cherish and protect it.

Tears filled my eyes as the interpreter’s next words filled my ears. “Give me the other 100 Bibles.”

Jeremiah served both as the director of Generation Joshua (GenJ) and director of HSLDA’s Media Relations for HSLDA until 2025. 

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